That's right. It seems like every other thought I have these days involves ropes, gags, hogties, chair ties, you name it! And it's come to my attention that there is one fantasy in particular that I have never really played out: kidnapping. We throw that word around a lot in the bondage-game world. Still, what exactly would a realistic kidnapping entail?
I know a lot of my kidnap fantasies focus on the idea of being tied up by surprise and force. The rest is basically up for negotiation. It would be hot to be forced into a van and taken to an undisclosed location, but not necessary, and a lot of times I fantasize about being left to struggle in isolation for an hour or so. Still, the biggest aspect for me is being forced into that predicament.
Obviously from the very start you have planned it out, so it is hard to have that "surprise" component, but not impossible. I have thought about maybe giving someone I trust a key to my place and giving them a set of days they could come in while I was asleep and jump me. Just thoughts. In fact, most of this is just fantasies and ideas. I've never successfully done anything like this.
Which is why I wanted to ask my readers. What do you think makes a good kidnapping scene? For those of you with experience, any advice? For those of you without experience, how would you kidnap me or want to be kidnapped?
9 comments:
Maybe not so much a kidnap as an abduction. I can see me broken down on the side of the road when a school bus (either hs or college) soccer team stops to see if they can help. They are all extremely horny and decide to tie me up, gag me with their freshly worn soccer socks and throw me in the back seat of the bus while each player does with me what they want, only to be left further down the road wearing only soccer socks and a dirty jock....mmmmmm
Remind me to tell you my fantasy story about the hot young lawn service worker who ends up being kidnapped by three very hot and kinky gay guys who are looking for someone to build a sex party around.
They kidnap him after he just finished a long hot days work and he ends up stripped down to his dirty socks and tied with lots of rope to a special lazy suzan type table they had built for the occasion.
mmmmmmm
lol
Uncle rick
To make this happen, your friends might have to jump you, then restrain and hood you. But where it gets "real" might be when they hand you over to some guys you DON'T know... and they take you out to the van, car, whatever. After that, you would not know who you were with or where you were. That would be the beginning of a fantasy for me. :)
As a Sir who has done a few "faux kindnappings" I can tell you that it isn't easy. It really only works the first time you meet when there is some apprehension, but there still has to be a lot of trust and pre-planning that naturally effects the experience.
I have picked up boys at the local, small airport by having them get into the back seat curbside, cover there heads with a mail bag, cuff their hands behind them and lay down on the back seat. Then drive them back to my place, which is way out in the country. Remove them from the car, keeping eyes covered and then played with them. Even returned one to town without his ever seeing me or knowing where he had been.
I kidnapped one boy from a local restaurant parking lot in much the same manner, but since we were relatively close and wouldn't be on a dangerous road, had him get in the trunk.
As with most scenes like this, you have to be extremely careful. Keep the fantasy as just that, a fantasy, and err always on the side of safety.
Sir Jim
dear Ben ,
I'min France but i wish i could be in New York to enter at night in your flat as you're sleeping. then jump on you and put your hands in youre back with manacles, my hand on your mouth to not allowed you to shout. Then i force you to take in your mouth a dirty sock then some tape.You try to move but i take your two legs with my legs and i bound your feets and legs. evenif you roll on yourselve to escape i stay on you and continue to rope you. Minute after minute you c'ant move at all and c'an't speak at all. your arms are good tied so i put the manacles down ans tie your wrist with arope then to your arms. then i put one of my knees on your back a begin to hogtie you. You try to resist as stronger as you can and you try to shout but finally i put you in a very tight hogtie. I put you on the floor and tie your cock and balls then put you on your stomach then a very small plug in your arse (tu punish you for your resistance) you try to move and shout and you're very angry but can't do anything. then i put a dirty jock on your nose and it's very fun for me to watch you strugglingin and mmmpppphing at me !
I am a good kidnapper ??
;)
Guillaume
Ben, it seems you have been kidnapped afterall...are they working on you for the next installment of your bondage video?
NMmaster
Ben, I think you deserve to be kidnapped and punished for not keeping this blog up to date as promised! You definitely deserve at least three hours of immobility and having your cock, balls, ass and tits worked on constantly. Also, edged for the first half of the session and milked for the second half. I'm sure there are a few things that could be put in your mouth to keep you quiet the whole time.
BTW, if the blog isn't updated soon, I would plan just such a session if I wasn't so far away.
As someone who actually has kidnapped someone I can say for sure that it does take a lot of trust and a LOT of planning. But YOU can't entirely plan it to make it successful.
Here's what I mean:
My friends and I kidnapped a guy after he disclosed his fantasy to one of our group he used to play with on the side.
What worked:
He wrote a letter detailing what sorts of things he was interested in, he wanted to be "jumped", he wanted a weekend-long experience, etc. This was an invaluable starting point for our group to plan out the experience and to negotiate the whole experience with him. Two more letters were written back and forth outlining some points and nixing some ideas from one side or the other (one nice touch was using a "ransom note" style of cut out letters).
He knew only one of us, so that fact added drama but we'd all played before in a small group of 4 (and knew each other's strengths and weaknesses. He had enough trust in one of us that he was game. I think that takes real balls (and is possibly stupid) but I think if you know someone enough and what type of people they play with then it MIGHT be feasible. It made the element of surprise stand out.
-He had a group of guys (and 1 girl) playing with him. This ensured that he had someone with him/supervising him 24-7, very important for safety, and hard to do if it's just one kidnapper. It was fun in the interrogation where multiple people could come at him with questions and punishment. We had a chance to test the elements of the scenarios we'd devised on each other first as we were setting them up, for safety and feasibility (the whole takedown scenario was enacted multiple times before we got it right, etc.) This whole exercise was good for us as newby kidnappers and things, as a consequence, went off without a hitch.
OUR fatigue didn't set in, we were always fresh, his fatigue did and that provided a really important point where he "broke" towards the end. Totally hot and he loved it (and so did I).
We got to play good cop/bad cop a bit and also mix up styles/expertise, that leavened the experience, making nice highs and lows throughout the scene.
It was also nice that we could depend on each other for resources.
What didn't work:
He wasn't attracted to the girl. With any group I think attraction has a big impact on making SMBD sexy or not. In this case he was scared of her for some reason, we adjusted and she was only ever present after with one of the guys and I think that allowed him to relax and enjoy. Certainly he enjoyed the interrogation and that was mostly her in a pig-cop mask and SS-type boots and jacket. It also led to the hottest photos of the session. If you use a group, you should be prepared that not everyone plays equally well with someone else and immediately respond and adjust to that!
He was very worn-out afterward. While he was not actually injured in any way, it was an intense experience and required a cool-down period. We all took a day or two off work afterwards and none of us had properly accounted for that. In addition I think more food and more hydration would have been good for him during the session. I thought afterwards that maybe if we had kept up his electrolytes better he would have had a shorter recovery time. Not that he was ever starved or anything, but it was a hassle to do bathroom breaks without breaking the scene (although he did like us standing over his chained-up ass as he shit) and although eating and drinking was accomplished by dog bowl "mush" we might have put in gatorade or something instead of water. He sweated a lot because of the abuse. Never underestimate the need for hydration!
Hope this helps, and I hope you do get that sexy ass of yours taken! I'd love see photos of it afterward.
Ben, where art thou?
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