A date? Seriously?

Yes, seriously. I actually went on a date the other day; a phenomenon that has not occurred in probably a year or so. I really don't date all that much anyway, and when I was training under my NY Sir...it was pretty clear to me that no one could ever mean as much to me as he did. So dating is just something I haven't done in a long while. Now, most of you know I am really into older, Dominant, muscle bears (Jewish, apparently). So if you asked me how it is that I came to go out with a twenty-one-year-old blond twink/jock...I honestly don't know the answer. We met through mutual leather friends/online (a bit of both), and something just made me ask if he wanted to hang out instead of just playing.

Sunday we went to the Hirshhorn Modern Art Museum, which I had never been to. The exhibits were amazing, and made me incredibly nostalgic for New York. Despite this, the Hirschhorn did have something that no NYC Gallery or Museum had; a super hot leather boy coming up behind me to press himself against my ass and growl lightly into my ear. Through out the day we would share casual flirtations (as well as our first kiss) as we got to know one another. I thought we clicked well, and I was surprised at how much I was enjoying my time with another twenty-one year old.

After the museum we went back to my Dorm (so romantic) and explored our sexual chemistry a bit. When I say a bit, I mean it was two rounds of some of the hottest play I have experienced in a long time. From the moment he took off his shoes to make me sniff his nasty socks while groping my ass till the final moment when I milked his second load out of him while he struggled, bound to my desk chair and well gagged; our sexual exploration was incredible. Both of us explored not only each other, but ourselves a bit more. There are very few leathermen and boys who would disagree that every now and again, it is fun to play the opposite role. I choose to be a submissive because it fulfills me sexually and emotionally. Still...there was something extremely erotic and powerful in the playfulness and raw sexual energy of our shared youth. We each had our own personal limits, but the limits of role and power structure were gone. I rarely fool around with guys my own age, and when I do its limited to very standard vanilla sex. But with him, I knew that he was just as a hard a player (if not harder) than I was, and allowed myself to just give into my more carnal cravings. Sometimes we were playful, sometimes we were sensual, and sometimes we took turns being cruel and sadistic...but every second of our time together was exhilarating.

Between rounds one and two we cuddled, ate, and watched John Waters' "Female Trouble". This is sort of a dating litmus test for me that I often show on first or second dates. If the guy laughs, its a good sign that we have similar senses of humor. This is pretty important (if not crucial) to me, and he was cracking up more than a few times. In fact, he wants to watch another Water's film on our next date...which is tentatively planned for Weds.

Like I said guys, this is unfamiliar water for me. I haven't had seriously dated someone in four years, and I have never in my life thought I could date someone my age. Whats more, I never thought I could date another "boy". Don't get me wrong, he and I only had one date hahahah, by no means is he boyfriendly yet. Still...I am not ruling it out...which is kind of exciting. Wish me luck on date number two! And if people want, leave a comment and I will get more into the specifics of our play in my next post.