Monday, March 7, 2011

Self Bondage

I have found that most of the guys I know who are like me have tried self bondage. By like me, I mean have bondage as a very specific interest. Bondage isn't just a means to an end (sex). Bondage, in and of itself, can be hot. In fact, most of my fantasies revolve around Hardy Boy bondage. It can be fully clothed and completely unsexed. The allure comes from the actual experience of being bound and gagged.

It makes sense then, that if the allure comes from being tied up, that there is at least some enjoyment derived from self-bondage (or tying yourself up). Of course there are degrees of self bondage. As a very simple example: I gag myself ALL the time. When I'm jerking off, when I'm cleaning the apartment, whenever. Being gagged just really turns me on. Sometimes I just wanna be tied up though. Which is when you try out the more extreme techniques.

Now, I am aware, self bondage can be EXTREMELY DANGEROUS. One should ALWAYS make sure to have an emergency way out (usually scissors). In fact, I frequently do self bondage when my roomie is home so no matter what, I can ask for help. Whats more, when I plan on tying my hands as well, I usually don't use a mouth stuffing gag that I could easily choke on.

Having said, I do have a few techniques I have been working on. My main one is pretty basic, and can be used to make a decent hogtie. You start by taking a short length of rope and tying a square knot at it's ends, in essence making a single loop of rope. Now fold that rope back on itself several times until you have several coils of rope layered on top of one another, making one small loop. Put that aside for now. Take another short length of rope and tie your ankles, with no cinching yet. Lastly, wrap a third length of rope around your tied ankles, cinching the original tie. However, at the end of one length of this third rope, tie a slip knot. Now, get on your knees and put one wrist through the first rope (the short loop). Before putting the second wrist, put the coils through the slip knot you just made. Now slide your second wrist through the rope. Lastly, from your knees, lean onto your stomach (you start on your knees because it gives you more leverage to slip the rope through the slip knot). And now, here you are, effectively hogtied. Whenever you're ready to be untied, you just untie the slip knot.

This is my most used method. However,  I was hoping you guys could share some of your own techniques in the comments section. I'm always looking to test new methods to see how well I can rope myself up.

11 comments:

Jay said...

You must look really cute vacuuming with a gag in your mouth.

Anonymous said...

I used to use chains and a combo lock in a dark room at night ... sometimes with a lamp on a timer.
--Metal

Anonymous said...

Some of these would make your self-bondage dreams come true :)

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BondageMasterArg said...

Some really good tecniques.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A2xOiuxsVGU
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JKBcc7e1EME
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uHewkw_YVck
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOHvP3K1ZOw
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9Q1XCNVhaYE

I only use 2, but I just saw the other and start using them soon.

Anonymous said...

Are you still alive?

boiconstrictor said...

I second what Metal said:
Use handcuffs or locking cuffs with the keys well out of reach and then connect everything together with a length of chain (HOME DEPOT)or a bicycle cable and a Master combination padlock (they're tested for pulling and prying, so you won't break it while you're struggling). Do it in a dark room with a light on a timer or at night with the lights off and you have to wait 'til dawn to be able to see the combination and get free. DO NOT USE luggage locks, no matter how sturdy they seem: either you'll pop the clasp open, or destroy the mechanism so even with the combination you won't be able to get it open!

-boiconstrictor
boiconstrictor.blogspot.com

BondageMasterArg said...

Check this site: http://fetish.pornparks.com/autobond/d40p0.htm

Very complicated but beautiful techniques.

Mark said...

can someone go and untie Ben?

Anonymous said...

DEAR BEN. FOR A LONG TIME NO PERSONAL NEWS OF YOU,I HOPE YOU ARE O K AND IN GOOD HEALTH,A FRIEND WHO WISH YOU THE BEST ALLWAYS. MARCO FROM MIAMI.

BondageMasterArg said...

I'm worried, are you okay? A long time ago that we know nothing about you.
Please tell us something.

White sox lover said...

Almost 3 months without any post. Are you OK, Ben ? Say something !