Friday, April 10, 2009

Open thread

Alright guys, sorry for not posting lately. To be honest, there hasn't really been much to report (at least nothing I am ready to report quite yet).

But I wanted to keep the blog alive, so I thought I would post another open thread for discussion. This topic is aimed more to give me valuable feedback. I care a lot about what you guys think, so the topic is:

What do you enjoy most about this blog? What not so much? What could be improved? What would you like more of?

12 comments:

Damien said...

I think that for what this blog is - your exploration of your self - is just fine.

Dont feel a pressure to post. Once that happens, youll start to resent the blog.

Post when you do - about whatever you do - we... the readers... will read :)

WolvesPerv said...

I'd just echo Damien above, don't feel you have to post. The blog is to reflect the owner / writer and what they wish to share.

I think you have a fantastic writing style and I always enjoy reading your postings. Just post as and when you feel you want to, and what you want to.

nomenanonym@yahoo.com said...

What I find most remarkable about subs is their desire to please. I think you crave affirmation and approbation, like most people (and BTW I hereby extend those things by intentionally visiting your blog). However, I would not want to influence you on what to write, since what is of value here only comes from you.

Whatever you write does not have to be unique, perfect, or uniformly good. A mundane diary can also be informative and interesting. Just keep writing at a steady, comfortable rate. I think you will be pleased overall with the quality of what results.

What interests me is your perceptions. The tiny details of why something is attractive, alluring or powerful. Or how your friends may view things differently. For example, what was it that makes the way a guy unbuttoned your pants keep running over and over in your mind.

Ben said...

Haha, its very true that I have an overwhelming desire to serve and please that I'm often not even cognicent of.

And I suppose, in retrospect, posting this discussion topic may have been just another way for me to inject my life with more service.

With my life in the crazy state it is, I haven't had much time for service all semester.

I guess my discussion topic should have been:

"How can I serve You?"

heheheh

Damien said...

And serve well you do.

I have a couple of suggestions....

But they are nasty and disrespectful :(

And one shouldnt just think of you as meat - you are far too intelligent for that.

Anonymous said...

pics pics pics! grrr:)

Ben said...

Oh come on Damien, Sir. Please... Sometimes I need to be treated like a piece of meat. This whole semester has been lite on service AND humiliation. At least email me your thoughts if you dont' want to post them here.

Ben said...

Just so everyone knows, Damien did send me his ideas on how i could serve Him. A very dirty mind is a terrible thing to waste;-)

mpphhh

Damien said...

Indeed lad.

Anonymous said...

Its a shame you haven't shared Damien's thought's with us. I'm sure the other Sir's on here like me are also having plenty of those thoughts. I tried a few of mine out on my own boy and he LOVED them! I get some great insight on here as to what my boy is thinking. So come on Damien, post them for us all to enjoy!! If Ben enjoyed them then they must be good!!

Damien said...

I put forward the idea of having the boy bound for a full 48 hours to be used as a receptacle / toy / furniture et al.

He liked it.

torontomenatwork said...

I echo the above comments that you're doing great. I admire a young guys like you who's so adventurous and willing to explore.