Hey guys. So you know how I always complain about not having anything to post about? Well lately I have had too much to post about! Which is why it has been so hard to pick which are worth the time of writing about. Which begs the question why have a blog if you are too lazy to write in it? Haha, oh well.
Today's post, despite the intro, is pretty short actually. It is sort of a public confession. As many of you know (especially those who know me in person), I am quite shameless about my BDSM interests and lifestyle. I am a proud and outspoken young man, and I tell people, rather casually, about all kinds of interests.
Despite all of this though, I do have a few interests that I am not as outspoken about. I wouldn't really say I am ashamed. That's not quite it exactly. It's more...I don't know. How to describe it. I know a lot of guys aren't really into it, and that some are really turned off by the idea; so I elect not to bring it up.
By the way, the IT is that I like tights/spandex. I think they are wicked hot. Now to be clear, I am not entirely "in the closet" with this interest. I have pics on my recon page with me bound and gagged in lycra suits. And I think I list that as an interest. I just, rarely bring it up with someone if they don't first.
I really don't know why I feel all weird when I talk about it or bring it up with guys I am talking to. Maybe I don't perceive it as very manly? I don't know. I really don't. But, you guys know me. I usually don't worry too much about why I get off on something. Why I think certain ways or preform certain behaviors: sure. But at the core of why some fetish turns me on, I think too many people spend too much time worried about it. Just enjoy it. And that is exactly what I'm gonna do. In fact, I was inspired to write this because I am about to go shopping for new tights right now!
And if you don't like it, fuck off! ;-)
15 comments:
I also think tights are hot. On you.
Love your blog.
Whipsmart_1
Bravo for you lad.
COOL! you look awesome in those tights! Very hot!
Nothing to be 'ashamed' about!
Keep up the good work!
Greetings from Holland
The Robin one is my favorite! Guess its the comic book geek in me.
You are much more likely to get what you want if you ask for it ... thus endeth the lesson!
nothing to be embarrassed about. knew you liked tights from your wrestling tights bondage photos. love your photos. how about an unbound Robin picture?
Well, I think you look amazingly hot, and I love you tied in that Robin outfit. I have many pics of myself tied in Robin and Spidey outfits, visit my blog sometime, tiedfeetguy.blogspot.com
Ben, you're the best Robin since Burt Ward!
Hey Ben. Who cares what others think about it. If you like the erotic feeling of tights/spandex/etc. on you, than do it. And when you throw in bondage and gags, WOOOF WOOOF to you. Your a hot guy, show it off.
:-)
Kudos Ben, fellow spandex guy here as well. Glad you are enjoying your new place and blogging...I'll keep reading!!
I would tie you up in tights any time. you look hot!
I spandex/lycra too! If it contains spandex, I love it. I love wearing it, seeing guys wearing it and playing in it.
I think you've hit the nail on the head regarding why we have so much hesitation talking about our interests in anything skintight - latex, lycra, whatever...a lot of guys find this stuff somewhat, er, effeminate? I realized a long time ago that I'm not going to worry about what they think. I love it, and I know lots of other guys do too, so the rest can just fuck off!
I'm way into tights and spandex and everything related...and you look amazing in them. Please do not hesitate to post pics of you in em', man.
I like your blog and picture. You are a very good slave and your body is perfect ;-)
friendly,
Norton
http://bound-in-zentai.blogspot.com
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